.. as illustrated by a a story.
A Good Black Man and a Good Black Woman are at a bar.
The Good Black Man goes up to the Good Black Woman.
GBM: Hi, what's your name?
GBM: Nice to meet you, Shirelle. My name is Lance.
GBW: You too, Lance. May I ask you a question?
GBM: Sure, shoot.
GBW: Why do Black Men always...... "
GBM: *tosses back drink* have a good night.